BDSM, Domination

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oakjourneys BDSM New York
7 5

oakjourneys

In person

New York NY US

Your Multitalented Pansexy Prince

BDSM Erotic audio Coaching

dawnchorus

In person & Online

New Orleans LA US

⛓️ Chew up your love then swallow ⛓️

Muse BDSM

toobigtwachet Art Cronulla
2 1

toobigtwachet

In person & Online

Cronulla AU

I’m a teach of all things big and size no sexual services just modeling and 12 of bdsm and tantric and massage if how appropriate sexual tension and activity with penis size being a issue but in case I’m on other with a 29cm long and it’s taken to understand how to apply this touch to and bind issue without this

Art BDSM Coaching Kink Muse Retreat Therapy

aBrandi_kink Erotic audio El Paso
2 6
1 experience

aBrandi_kink

In person & Online

El Paso TX US

Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.

1 service

Erotic audio Photography Writing BDSM Kink Coaching Education Erotic media

emilyzedsexed BDSM Kitchener
3 1
4 experiences

emilyzedsexed

Online

Kitchener ON CA

I support kinky neuroqueers with sex & relationship coaching that works for you...and your nervous system.💜

2 services, 2 products

BDSM Coaching Education Writing

breeleche

In person & Online

Los Angeles CA US

Trained sexologist and certified sex and relationship coach. I love helping folks safely explore their desires and expand their skills. Warm and friendly BDSM enthusiast excited to play.

BDSM Coaching Muse

MALISANDRE Coaching Washington
4 2 1 2
1 experience

MALISANDRE

Online

Washington DC US

Educator, coach, and artist exploring the sacred art of sensuality, power, and transformation.

1 service

Coaching Domination Education Kink BDSM Art Writing Painting

MirabaiBerlin BDSM Berlin
9 2
1 experience

MirabaiBerlin

In person

Berlin DE

Tantra & Sensual Domination

1 service

BDSM Massage Dance

Mae

In person & Online

Anderson IN US

Art Erotic audio BDSM Kink Erotic media

Relectrix BDSM Philadelphia
7 5

Relectrix

In person & Online

Philadelphia PA US

A sensual Domme with a mean streak

BDSM Erotic media Domination Fetish Kink Direct messaging Erotic audio

AaronLawrence Art Berkeley
8 1
1 experience

AaronLawrence

In person & Online

Berkeley CA US

Your most intimate moments captured with Reverence & Respect

1 service

Art Photography Videography Writing Therapy Workshop Coaching Fetish Kink BDSM Custom content Social media

Nicaeclat Muse Berlin
3 experiences

Nicaeclat

In person & Online

Berlin DE

Sensual Authority and Coach to lead You into Pleasure, Self-discovery, and Transformative Erotic Experiences

3 services

Muse BDSM Domination Fetish Kink Coaching Education Therapy Workshop Modelling

What is a BDSM practitioner?

What is a BDSM practitioner?

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A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form. 

What makes it hot?

Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment. 

No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.

Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.

Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.

DO

Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.

Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.

Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.

 

DON'T

Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.

Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.

Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.

BDSM related experiences

Bondage

Bondage

Bondage

All tied up with nowhere to go?

CBT

CBT

CBT

Cock and ball torture: the best kind of therapy.

Chastity

Chastity

Chastity

When refraining is entertaining.

Domination

Domination

Domination

Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to dungeons.

FemDom

FemDom

FemDom

Let the matriarchy commence.

Findom

Findom

Findom

Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.

Foot worship

Foot worship

Foot worship

Your feet are my religion.

Latex

Latex

Latex

Want to see my second skin?

Leather

Leather

Leather

Dressed in leather whatever the weather.

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Every control freak's dream kink.

Role Play

Role Play

Role Play

Because sometimes getting arrested is very...liberating.

Shibari

Shibari

Shibari

Tying the knot never sounded better.

Submission

Submission

Submission

My happy place is my sub space.

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Torture and tickle time, all in one.