BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
nadirah_khalisa
BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person
Sultry Siren | Berlin based & FMTY Pro Dominant | Nadirah_Khalisa on all socials
ericd
BDSM, Erotic audio & Massage
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Very (test) filler filler
goddesssage
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
I’m a bold spirit ready to guide you on an exhilarating journey of exploration and trust. I believe in the power of connection—every command comes from a place of care to ensure your experience is not only thrilling but also deeply fulfilling. As a companion, I’m down-to-earth. I connect easily with others and make every encounter feel natural. I’m dedicated to creating a space where you can truly be yourself. Whether we’re sharing a quiet dinner or enjoying a night out, I bring delightful conversation and an air of sophistication that ensures each moment is special. As a Dominatrix, I have a deep understanding of the mind-body connection. When I’m in charge, safety and consent come first. I thrive on creating spaces where you can fully surrender and connect with your true self. Together, we’ll navigate the delicious tension between discipline and affection, pain and pleasure, and control. We'll craft a unique dynamic that resonates with your deepest dreams and desires.
Pielobyte
BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Queer, Aurora CO US
In person & Online
Highly sadistic Dominatrix Inquire via PM
AliceBlue
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Female, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
can call you Daddy but not afraid to hurt you
dawnchorus
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, New Orleans LA US
In person & Online
⛓️ Chew up your love then swallow ⛓️
alexandraespino
BDSM, Content creator & Coach
Female, Bisexual, Detroit MI US
Online
My name is Alexandra and I am a certified trauma-informed somatic sex coach and orgasmic hypnotist. I do this powerful and transformative work via 1:1 client-coaching sessions. I specialize in sexual alchemy and healing sexual trauma and shame; advocating for somatic practices, shadow integration, and exploration of kink and BDSM as psycho-spiritual therapeutic and healing modalities. These practices have been instrumental in my own personal healing journey.
chloeisgoodforme
BDSM, Companion & Massage
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
In person
Sensual & memorable
papipistacchio
BDSM
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
goddesskeileigh
BDSM, Photographer & Sugar baby
Female, Pansexual, New York NY US
Online
Your Wallets worst nightmare
chloephemeral
BDSM, Coach & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Barcelona ES
In person & Online
Intamacy is powerful
mistressbeate
BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Psychological Domination⛓
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
