Sex Therapy & Intimacy Coaching ⎸ Online & In-person
Not everything that feels off in your intimate life needs a label.
Maybe you feel disconnected from desire?
Maybe sex has become stressful, confusing, or overly mental?
Maybe nothing is wrong but you're curious about your sexuality?
This is a relaxed, confidential space to explore your relationship to intimacy, pleasure, and connection, without any pressure to perform or to explain yourself perfectly.
In our sessions, we look at how your body responds, how your mind gets involved, and how past experiences, stress, or habits may be shaping what you feel today. The work is grounded, embodied, and practical, and never about forcing change.
You don’t need a clear goal to start. Curiosity is enough.
This space is for you if you:
- Feel a bit lost or disconnected when it comes to intimacy or desire
- Want to feel more present in your body and less in your head
- Experience anxiety, pressure, or self-doubt around sex
- Are curious to understand yourself better
Sessions are available online worldwide or in person in Toulouse, for individuals or couples.
How it works
- 1Once you click I am interested, sexuntold will be notified by email
- 2You will be contacted to set up a date and time and let you know how to pay, if applicable
- 3Please email us at [email protected] if you have any questions or issues with your booking
- ✦Enjoy your experience!
Location · Toulouse
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Mindful Masturbation & Non-Performative Arousal (Men)
Most men learn arousal through speed, tension, porn and outcome.Over time, this can create pressure, disconnection, or a feeling that desire only works under very specific conditions.Mindful Masturbation & Non-Performative Arousal is a guided programme to relearn arousal without urgency, pressure, or performance goals.This work focuses on slowing down, reconnecting with sensation, and understanding how your body responds when there’s no demand to “get somewhere” using the senses & imagination as arousal cues. We explore how arousal rises and falls naturally, how anxiety interferes with pleasure, and how presence restores sexual confidence.Sessions are guided and structured. There is no explicit sexual content, no porn, and no expectation to perform. The emphasis is on awareness, breath, nervous system regulation, and developing a healthier, more trusting relationship with your body and your desire.This work is particularly helpful if you:Feel disconnected from pleasure or rely on tension to feel arousedExperience performance anxiety or pressure during sexRush masturbation or use it to release stress rather than feelWant to rebuild confidence without forcing erections or outcomesAre curious about arousal as a felt experience, not a testMindful masturbation is not about doing more — it’s about doing differently, leaving porn culture behind. Sessions are individual, confidential, and available online worldwide. Interested but not ready for a session? I'll send you a link to my guide.
Performance Anxiety & Sexual Confidence (Men)
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Erotic Identity & Desire Mapping
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Couples Therapy & Conscious Relating
Every couple gets stuck at some point.Maybe you love each other, but desire feels uneven?Maybe communication goes in circles?Maybe intimacy has become tense, routine, or overly careful?Or maybe you’re navigating new questions around boundaries, openness, or how to stay connected as you evolve?This service is an invitation to take a beat and look at how you relate with each other emotionally, physically, and intimately, without blame or taking sides.In our sessions, we explore the dynamics between you: how you express needs, handle distance or closeness, repair after tension, and keep intimacy alive beyond habit. The work is practical, grounded, and relational and less about analysing the past, more about changing what happens between you in real time.You don’t need to be in crisis to start. Many couples come simply because they want more clarity, more ease, or a deeper sense of connection.This space is for couples who:Feel a growing emotional or sexual distanceKeep repeating the same conversations or conflictsWant to reconnect without forcing desireAre curious about conscious, non-traditional, or evolving relationship modelsWant to relate with more honesty, presence, and choiceSessions are available online worldwide or in Toulouse.
Sex Therapy & Intimacy Coaching ⎸ Online & In-person
- 45 min/ Individual €70
- 60 min/ Couple €120
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