Performance Anxiety & Sexual Confidence (Men)

Service
Individual session, 45 mins

€70

4 session programme (4 x 45 mins)

€210

Online/virtual & In person Toulouse, France

Performance anxiety isn’t failure, tt’s what happens when pressure, expectation, and self-monitoring take over the body.

Many men experience moments where arousal disappears, erections feel unreliable, or attention collapses inward at the worst possible time. Often, this has little to do with attraction or physical capacity and everything to do with how the nervous system responds to stress, intimacy, and the fear of disappointing.

This offer is designed to help you understand what’s actually happening when confidence drops and how to rebuild trust in your body without forcing performance.

During sessions, we work with the body as much as the mind. We explore how anxiety shows up somatically, how arousal is disrupted by self-monitoring, and how pressure, shame, or past experiences can create a cycle that keeps repeating. The focus is on presence, regulation, and reconnecting with sensation — not chasing outcomes.

This is not about tricks, techniques, or trying harder. It’s about shifting the internal conditions that allow desire and confidence to return naturally.

This could be for you if:

  • You lose erections or arousal under pressure
  • Sex feels mentally exhausting rather than pleasurable
  • You worry about satisfying your partner or “getting it right”
  • Your confidence depends heavily on performance
  • You want a grounded, respectful approach — not quick fixes

Sessions are individual, confidential, and available online worldwide or in Toulouse. The programme is tailored to your specific case and includes guides, workbooks and 1:1 sessions with me.

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How it works

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Location: Toulouse, France

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