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My services are for

Women, Men, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

30s · Female

I speak

English

Whitney Vance — Kinked & Connected
Sex, power, and intimacy aren't separate conversations — I coach at the intersection of all three.
I'm a BDSM and intimacy coach working under the brand Kinked & Connected, serving clients nationwide, entirely virtually, wherever life (and the road) takes me. My approach centers consent, communication, and negotiated power exchange — helping individuals and partners build dynamics that are safe, sane, and fully consensual (SSC) or grounded in risk-aware consensual kink (RACK), depending on what fits them.
Most people were never taught how to talk about desire, power, or boundaries — so they either suppress what they want or pursue it without the negotiation skills to do it safely. I close that gap: turning curiosity and unspoken need into clear agreements, confident communication, and a dynamic that actually works for everyone involved.
My core offer is a 12-week 1:1 coaching intensive — deep, structured work on power dynamics, negotiation, and relationship design, built around your specific goals rather than a one-size-fits-all curriculum. I also produce educational content and frameworks: practical, non-judgmental resources on kink practices, power exchange, and aftercare, for people at any stage of exploration.
I don't lecture and I don't pathologize. Every client's dynamic is treated as valid if it's consensual — my job is to help you negotiate it clearly, practice it safely, and sustain it long-term, with aftercare and check-ins built in rather than treated as an afterthought.

My qualifications

2 years of experience

I'm a certified BDSM/kink coach who is trauma informed and I'm part of the LGBT+ community.

Where you can find me

McDowell, US

Home base

Prestonsburg, US

Travels to

Pikeville, US

Travels to

Exact address is shared privately once a session is confirmed.

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