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Welcome to the garden 🪻✨

I'm Lavender Grunge: FemDom, FinDom, artist and community organizer!

I'm the sweetest sadist you'll ever lay eyes on. Equal parts kinky and creative with a penchant for pain.

As a Domme I love watching you scrub My floors in frilly underwear and making you squeal.

As an educator I love thorough research, experiential learning and bridging gaps in adult sex ed.

Let's play 🪻✨

* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs

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Do you see new/inexperienced subs?
Yes! I see everyone from seasoned submissives to excited first timers.

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BDSM Educator Erotic creator Bondage CBT Chastity Domination FemDom Findom Impact play Conscious kink Educational 1 on 1 Sex toy advice Erotic Art Fetish Modeling Nude Modeling ASMR Body Worship Boundaries Breath play Communication issues Cuckold Custom content Foot worship Kink events Kink workshops Live video calls Orgasm control Predicament bondage Psychological Play Queer sex coaching Sexting Smoking fetish Solo content Temperature play Wax Play Degradation Electro play Gender Exploration

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