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lavendergrunge
Kamloops BC CA
Your Dad Calls Me Daddy 🪻✨
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About me
Welcome to the garden 🪻✨
I'm Lavender Grunge: FemDom, FinDom, artist and community organizer!
I'm the sweetest sadist you'll ever lay eyes on. Equal parts kinky and creative with a penchant for pain.
As a Domme I love watching you scrub My floors in frilly underwear and making you squeal.
As an educator I love thorough research, experiential learning and bridging gaps in adult sex ed.
Let's play 🪻✨
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