Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies - online workshop
DateMon, Dec 7 · 8:00 PM
FormatOnline
Event forEveryone
Fantasies: we all have them, but sharing them is one of our deepest taboos...
Is your fantasy life much wilder, richer - and, whisper it, more satisfying - than your IRL sex life? You're not alone! Rather than feeling ashamed and guilty, you can use this fantasy life to better understand yourself, and bring some of that satisfaction into real life.
"But my fantasies are so weird!"
"I'm confused, mine are SO NOT what I'd want to actually do IRL"
"Mine are literally impossible to recreate - space and aliens..."
"How on earth do I even begin to tell my partner about them?"
In this workshop, sex coach Ruth Ramsay address all this and more. What shapes our fantasy landscape, as individuals and culturally; where our fantasies come from; the clever ways in which they are boosting our mental health; how to judge whether to share them with a partner… And the big question: whether to bring them into reality.
Join Ruth for a fascinating, informative workshop, during which you’ll have the opportunity to analyse your own top fantasies.
The main presentation will be recorded and shared with ticket-holders the next day.
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• This will be run webinar-style, attendees cameras & mics will be switched off during the main presentation
The workshop will be recorded and the recording will be shared and available to view online for 14 days.
Questions can be submitted via the Zoom Q&A box during the webinar. Ruth does not guarantee to answer all questions
The Q&A will not be recorded, please attend live if you want to take part
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Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies - online workshop
Mon, Dec 7 · 8:00 PM
- Standard ticket (single or couple viewing)90 min · up to 1 £18
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