The Connection Playbook For Couples

"Rather than rediscovering something that was lost, it's like we've found something new that we never had before..."

How can we improve our sex life?" This is the most common question I get asked by couples.

There's no one answer. Your situation and desires are unique. Maybe you have young children and busy jobs, or you're retired with time on your hands. It might be that you're comfortable talking about sex together, or you've never discussed it. You may have disability or chronic illness to take into account. A large budget to splash on sex toys and holidays, or none. Maybe having regular sex is your goal or maybe you have that and want to spice things up.

I will help you understand what will work best for YOU, and how to put it into practice.

My Connection Playbook For Couples contains the exercises I see work best in my couples coaching practice. PLUS a 20-minute introductory video of what I find couples most need to hear. Fill in the Playbook together to create your unique roadmap to the sex lives you desire - then enjoy making it happen!

"It is hard to know where to start, when talking about sex. The Playbook gave us a framework to follow. We sat together and felt like we were a team approaching the exercises, rather than sitting opposite each other like opponents, which is how we tried to talk in the past (without success!). Even just watching the introduction video together, resulted in more conversation and closeness than we've had before." Eva & Max, 31 & 36

"If you can't actually have Ruth sat on your sofa with you guiding your conversation - we wish! - her Connection Playbook is next best thing. We were already fans of her work so felt safe and calm, downloading the Playbook, and watching the starter video. We are taking the Playbook slowly - each section opens hours of conversation. Already how we show up in bed is different - we share our feelings, we make requests, and we laugh a lot more!" Priya and Thomas, both 35