Your First Play/Sex Party - online workshop
DateWed, Feb 3 · 8:00 PM
FormatOnline
Getting ready to go to your first play party this Valentine's, and wanting to feel well-prepared? Then this workshop is for you.
"The workshop helped us to feel confident, connected, and truly prepared for our night - we were honestly blown away at how much of an impact it had." Emily and David, both 34
If you’ve not yet been to a sex party, you probably have lots of questions. Many of the practical ones - what to wear, whether there are lockers etc - have answers on the event websites. But how about the bigger questions which are personal to you: how do you know you’re ready to go, how can you best prepare, and deal with nerves or jealousy? How will you communicate during any 'action', and how will you make sure everyone gets the most from the experience?
In this workshop, sex coach (and party go-er) Ruth Ramsay will share some general wisdom around approaching your first play party, then guide you to explore:
- Are you ready to attend a sex party?
- What do you hope for from the experience?
- What might your personal challenges be?
- How to prepare for your first event
- How to communicate your desires...
…and lots more. Includes a Q&A session for live attendees.
Suitable for both singles and couples.
A link to the accompanying workbook will be emailed to you on the day of the event, where you will create your own unique roadmap towards a successful first experience.
Putting this kind of thought into preparing for your first party is the best way to make sure it’s the first of many great experiences!
Sign up here: eventbrite.co.uk/e/2004435760317
Feedback from First Party workshop attendees:
“My partner and I came to your workshop on attending your first sex party and went to Killing Kittens last night, our first party - and had the most incredible night! I genuinely don’t think we would have had the experience we did if we hadn’t attended your workshop, you answered so many of our worries and concerns. We wouldn’t have been so open and so prepared. Thank you so much for helping make it the experience it was.”
"We watched Your First Play Party before attending our sixth play party. We naively thought we were already quite experienced and perhaps wouldn't take away that much from the workshop but we couldn't have been more wrong! Ruth's thoughtful prompts and questions allowed us to dig deeper into what we were both looking to get out of the experience, and how that would benefit us individually and as a couple. Ruth's approach is really comprehensive, covering everything from emotional readiness, communication, setting ground rules and other more practical prep.
The workshop helped us to feel confident, connected, and truly prepared for our night - we were honestly blown away at how much of an impact it had. We had the most joyous and fantastic night (our best play party by a long way!) and know that it's an experience we will treasure for a long time. We would highly recommend this workshop to anyone heading into their next play party, whether it is your first time or not!"
You will not be asked to be on-screen or required to share. There is adult language throughout the workshop but no nudity or explicit visuals.A recording will be accessible to ticket-holders for two weeks afterwards.
Find out more about Ruth below and at ruthramsay.com and see Ruth's TEDx talk, 'Revamp Your Sex Life In Six Minutes', by clicking here.
ABOUT RUTH: Ruth Ramsay is an adult sex educator and coach. She helps people understand who they are sexually, what they need and desire, and how to communicate that. Her style is upbeat and pleasure-led. Her TEDx talk ‘Revamp Your Sex Life In Six Minutes’ has over 3.4 million views and she writes regularly for the UK press.
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• This will be run webinar-style, attendees cameras & mics will be switched off during the main presentation
The workshop will be recorded and the recording will be shared and available to view online for 14 days.
Questions can be submitted via the Zoom Q&A box during the webinar. Ruth does not guarantee to answer all questions
The Q&A will not be recorded, please attend live if you want to take part
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Your First Play/Sex Party - online workshop
Wed, Feb 3 · 8:00 PM
- Standard ticket (single or couple viewing)90 min · up to 1 £18
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