Experiences I offer
About me
My services are for
Women, Men, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex
I offer experiences
In person · Online/Virtual
Age & gender
40s · Female · Gender fluid
I speak
English
Hi! I'm Lex and I'm the Somatic Sex, Kink & Relationship Coach behind Pleasure Rebels and The Kinky Classroom.
I work with individuals of all genders, sexualities, and relationship orientations. The majority of my clients identify as "outside of the norms" in some way, whether they're LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, kinky, neurodivergent, or questioning one of more of these things!
For individuals, I offer Sexological Bodywork sessions, kink explorations, and a series of one-to-one coaching programmes on everything from relationship readiness to empowered submissiveness. I also offer a Kinky Life Coaching service for individuals who need accountability to be a little more fun (and spicy!)
For couples and duos, I offer coaching around rupture and reconnection, navigating change (such as opening a relationship, or a shift in desire), as well as helping couples who wish to spice up their relationship by diving into their desires and fantasies (via online coaching or in-person tuition).
Through The Kinky Classroom, I offer a whole range of group learning opportunities - including Shibari and Ethical Dominance courses, plus gatherings, and a podcast: The Kinky Coffee Break.
I also offer training and mentoring for professionals, including therapists, facilitators, and other practitioners who wish to explore the topics of ethical kink, power, consent, and boundaries in their work.
A big focus of their work is around how kink - done ethically - can be used as a route to empowerment and us becoming whole, integrated humans.
My qualifications
I have a long-standing fascination with how power manifests in an individual’s body and mind, as well as within systems and the collective, and how all of these interact, and I've been lucky to explore this in many different settings - from my previous career as a Head of Marketing for a global scientific publisher to martial arts dojos, and from writing an MBA dissertation on the concept of followership to training as a Dominatrix!
In 2021, I left my previous job to set up my own business and to focus fully on working with people around the topics of power, embodiment, identity, intimacy, and relationships. My unquenchable curiosity has led me to many interesting and life-changing trainings along the way, and to meet the most wonderful humans!
Education and training
- Embodied Facilitator Certification with Embodiment Unlimited
- Neuroscience of Change coaching programme through Coaches Rising
- Certificate in Sexological Bodywork through the Sea School of Embodiment
- Conscious Kink/Shadow Tantra Practitioner training with Seani Love
- Certified Dominatrix programme through the Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy (under the mentorship of Mistress Damiana Chi)
- Wheel of Consent Like a Pro and Working With Groups (practitioner level trainings)
- Erotic Hypnosis Bootcamp with Mesmerotic
- Embodied Ethics course with Christiane Pelmas
- Right Use of Power Core and Basic Training Programmes
- The deVinery Method Traineeship in Sexual Fantasies (under the direct mentorship of Artemisia deVine)
Career highlight
Leading the opening workshop on consent at a conscious sexuality festival. It was a magical experience to harness all of that nervous/excited energy and empower everyone there to be in choice.
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Where you can find me
Exact address is shared privately once a session is confirmed.
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