Desire, Arousal & Pleasure. 1:1 Coaching Session
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Many of us have complicated relationships with desire.
Perhaps sex has become something you perform rather than experience. Perhaps pleasure feels distant. Perhaps your body isn't responding in the way you would like. Perhaps you're no longer sure what you want, what turns you on, or whether you are even allowed to want it.
For some people this shows up as erectile difficulties, challenges with arousal, difficulty reaching orgasm, performance anxiety or a loss of sexual confidence.
For others it appears more quietly: disconnection, numbness, uncertainty, obligation or a lingering sense that something is missing.
In this session, we'll move beyond the question of what your body should be doing and become curious about what it is actually communicating.
We might explore:
• Tracking sensation, pleasure and arousal in real time.
• Listening for what sits beneath numbness, pressure, uncertainty or obligation.
• What your body knows that your mind may have overlooked.
• Sexual stories, expectations and conditioning that no longer fit.
• Developing a deeper relationship with your body's yes, no and not yet.
My practice is non-touch-based and consent-led. I do not touch you. Some practices may invite you to explore touch on your own body, but you remain in charge throughout. I offer questions, practices and possibilities; you decide what you want to explore, adapt, pause or stop.
Online | 90 minutes
How it works
- 1Once you click I am interested, Emma Alwyn will be notified by email
- 2They will then contact you to arrange a date and time
- 3Please email us at contact@sensuali.com if you have any questions or issues with your booking
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Desire, Arousal & Pleasure. 1:1 Coaching Session
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